[Conditionally, and the fact that it is conditional won't let her stop there.]
I trust you to not take advantage if I ask you not to. I believe that you value having a relationship with me more than you would details of my past that might be interesting, but will not translate to any real gain in your situation here.
I trust that I'm worth more to you as a friend than I am as a puzzle.
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[Conditionally, and the fact that it is conditional won't let her stop there.]
I trust you to not take advantage if I ask you not to. I believe that you value having a relationship with me more than you would details of my past that might be interesting, but will not translate to any real gain in your situation here.
I trust that I'm worth more to you as a friend than I am as a puzzle.